Infertility. Will I survive? Will my marriage survive? Have I finished grieving? Will it ever get better? Will I ever feel complete? Will I ever feel happy? Will it ever not cross my mind during the day? Will my marriage ever feel normal again? Will my husband stay married to me? Will he secertly be resentful? Will he be unhappy the rest of his life? Will we find joy through other means? Will I ever have a support group? Will I ever have a consistent friend who understands and cares about me even though I'm not a mom? Will I ever be understood and cared about the way others my age are because they are moms? Will I ever be as important? Will I ever stop being angry at God? Will I ever feel His love for me, despite my flaws? Will I learn to love Him and accept Him despite my reaction to scream out why? Will I learn to love myself as a woman? Will I ever feel like a woman again? Will my husband and I still enjoy and love each other in 50 years? Will my house echo with silence forever? Will I always feel like I am missing out on the best experience this life has to offer? Will my arms always ache to hold my babies? Will it always be hard to walk through the baby section at the store? Will it always hurt to find out someone I know is pregnant? Will I always want to cry when I think about it? Will the pain ever stop? Will it ever end? Will it ever let up?
Will I survie this?? How can I survive this?? I really don't have any answers....
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